What alcohol does is dull your sense of apprehension along with other mental capabilities. Our bodies have a method to combat fear, known as the “fight or flight” response. This is the body’s way of protecting us from dangerous situations. Alcohol has a depressant effect on the brain and suppresses this response.
When our “fight or flight” system is diminished or absent, it makes us vulnerable to dangerous situations. If there is a danger, we are less likely to notice and certainly not as able to respond to it. What do we call people who are drunk? Hammered, wasted, tanked, tipsy, plastered. These words describe someone who can quickly be taken advantage of or hurt. This world is full of individuals that can’t wait to take advantage of someone in a vulnerable state.
As far as confidence goes, I would much rather spend time with a shy person than someone who is drunk and talks nonstop. Drinking to gain confidence can easily backfire, turning the person into a fool. You are much more likely to develop strong friendships if you appear as you are rather than who you are when drunk.
Intoxicated people also have diminished impulse control. I explain this to my students in the following way:
Suppose someone has just made you very angry. You don’t like this person and think about punching them in the face.
Most of us would not punch them. We know there are consequences to such actions. This is an example of impulse control. We stop ourselves from doing something that will undoubtedly have negative consequences. Alcohol removes some of this control. Remember, alcohol deadens all senses, good and bad.
Why do you suppose there are so many fights in bars?
Alcohol does not give you any special powers, and it takes away your body’s inherent protective mechanisms.
Another thing to consider is the fact that you have to get home from that party!
Do you have a designated driver?
How many times have you driven when you have had too many drinks?
I don’t have to tell you what happens if you get pulled over by the police on the way home.
The least you will lose is a night of freedom and a big pile of money. You could also lose your job or even your career in some cases.
Is it really worth it?